Wednesday, April 6, 2011

Evaluate Your Relationship-Do You Have A Strong Relationship?

Does your relationship need evaluation to identify the areas for improvement?  Evaluate your relationship today.

The best relationship is a friendship that catch fire.  How well do you know your partner and their view of the world?  Answer the following questions to find out.

1.    I understand my partner’s philosophies about life.
              Yes                    No

2.    I consider my partner to be my very best friend.
             Yes                    No

3.    We often touch and kiss for no particular reason.
              Yes                    No

4.    I call my partner several times a day.
                Yes             No

5.    I understand my partner’s dreams for the future.
               Yes                   No

6.    We find our sex life is fun and satisfying.
                Yes                  No

7.    We touch base everyday about how our day is going.
                  Yes                 No

8.    If I have a problem, I talk with my partner.
                  Yes                No

9.    We have scheduled activities that we look forward to.
                   Yes                No

10.     We have similar values and goals.
                     Yes               No

11.    I think that my partner has high integrity.
                    Yes               No

12.    I can’t wait to get home at the end of the day.
                    Yes               No

13.    We have favorite traditions for many of the holidays.
                     Yes              No

14.    I feel that my partner respects me.
                      Yes              No

15.    We enjoy many of the same activities.
                      Yes               No

16.    My partner understands my family.
                      Yes               No

17.    My partner makes me laugh.
                       Yes               No


How many “Yes” answers did you have?

15 or more:  You have a strong relationship built on friendship.

9-14:  You have a good base but additional work will enhance your relationship.  This is a good time to utilize additional tools.

8 or fewer:  Get busy or you and your partner risk drifting apart.

Build A Stronger Relationship on friendship and don't take the chance of drifting apart.

Monday, April 4, 2011

How to Win Love Back With Common Sense

How to win love back is a popular topic. Too many people do this all wrong.  They think that they must aggressively pursue their ex in order to get him or her back.  In fact, nothing could be further from the truth.  If you want to know how to win love back, follow the advice in this article as closely as possible.

The first thing you need to know in the how to win love back arena is that you do not want to chase your ex. 

Too many guys think they must pursue their ex’s.  They send hundreds of texts, call at odd hours of the day, and even stalk their ex girlfriend’s home.  They send flowers and gifts. 

This is wrong, wrong, wrong because it makes you look desperate.  Women like Alpha males, not sniveling guys they think are jokes.  When you appear desperate, your ex girlfriend will start playing head games with you.  She’ll let you come over, and then invite a new guy over too.  She’ll pretend she’s interested only to go off in another direction.

And, the more you fall into this trap, the more games she’ll play.  This is not the answer to how to win love back.

Instead of chasing her and being desperate, you need to play games with her that make her come crawling to you.

When you are in a group that includes her, flirt with every girl but her.  If she has an enemy in the group, pay special attention to that girl.  By ignoring your ex, you make her want to come back to you.  You are reminding her of all of your charms, but not applying them to her.

It’s a good idea to go out on a date with one of her close friends.  Send your ex a text message saying “now that we’re just friends, I wanted your opinion on something.  Where should I take Mary to dinner after the big game?”  That is sure to make your ex girlfriend jealous and it’s one of the tricks for how to win love back.

Even if you don’t want to play head games with your ex, there is one thing that you can do that may help you in the how to win love back arena.  That is, you should be happy.

Girls like to date happy guys.  If you work on you rather than focus on her, you have a much better chance getting her back.

Go work out at the gym.  Hang with your buddies.  Get involved in a hobby you never had time for when you were dating her.  Go out on dates.  Even if you have to fake being happy initially, you will soon realize that you really are happy.

This way, whether you get the girl back or you move on, you will be a happier person.

And, that is my advice for How To Win Love Back.